Criticism? No comment. Relationship expert Dr. Molly Barrow

Sometimes a sharp comment or criticism does not require a defense or response. Use this technique only occasionally because too much passivity is not good for the relationship. If you have had a series of blow-ups, try this different approach. When you have been unfairly scolded, an effective solution is to allow the person doing the criticizing to live with their own words, without editing or reaction by you. That way your attacker cannot blame you for escalating the fight. You can continue your work or relaxation, even if your partner is looking for an argument. Your attacker may even come around with an apology... far more quickly then if you join him or her in a huge row.