Dr. Molly Barrow

The Official Dr. Molly Barrow Blog offers educational self help advice about relationships, business, dating, marriage, parenting, teenagers and children, self-esteem, love and romance. Dr. Molly Barrow holds a Ph.D in psychology and is the author of Matchlines for Singles and the self-esteem adventure series, Malia and Teacup Awesome African Adventure and Malia and Teacup Out on a Limb. Dr. Molly is a relationship and psychology expert host on progressiveradionnetwork.com and television guest.

Sunday, June 25, 2006

Broken Heart Self Help Relationships by Relationship Expert Author and Radio Television Guest Dr. Molly Barrow Ph.D author of Matchlines

Excert from Matchlines by Dr. Molly Barrow

Typical of Skylines, people who have a great capacity to love, you may always love them just a little bit. Skylines sometimes desperately believe that it is enough to be allowed to love, even if you get nothing in return. Remember that a love relationship with a Bottomline is mostly nothing but fantasy. You never have to stop having warm and loving feelings for your discarded beloved. Remember that you threw stellar quality love at them. It is not your fault that your good love fell at their feet and then they walked all over it without any appreciation. However, when they are someone who is this toxic, you probably really need to get therapy and then to move on.
Contrast some characteristic Bottomline behavior with Skyline behavior. At a picnic, Bottomlines are the ones to rush to fill their plates before the food runs out. Meanwhile, Skylines are helping to fill elderly people’s plates with food. They end up getting their own dinner after the desserts have run out. Skylines do not mind giving more than others do. In fact, they hardly notice that they do.
As you acquire greater expertise in Loveline Awareness (self-analysis, clinical analysis of others, body language and deciphering truths and omissions) you will begin to separate the long Lovelines from the too short ones and the broken ones. After you interact with individuals that have your Match, you will often walk away smiling and feeling better about yourself and life in general. Skylines and Bottomlines can chafe your Line with every interaction, however in very different ways. You often disappoint the Skyline and the Bottomline is cruel to you. Stripped of their sports cars and flashy clothes, the shortest of Lovelines, Bottomlines, are easy to recognize by their selfish behavior. You can look, you may even be tempted to try a bite of forbidden fruit, just keep your distance. The Skyline is a wonderful giver and may just want to love you, but this relationship requires balancing and great sensitivity to keep it from becoming oppressive and hurtful, too. For more help with a broken heart please visit www.askdrmolly.com and read Matchlines. Other excellent resources are Barbara De Angelis and Dr. Wayne Dyer.

Dr. Molly Barrow holds a Ph.D. in clinical psychology and is the author of the new book, “Matchlines: A Revolutionary New Way of Looking at Relationships and Making the Right Choices in Love,” ISBN 159507158X. She is an authority on relationship and psychological topics, a member of the American Psychological Association and a licensed mental health counselor. Dr. Molly has appeared as an expert in the film, My Suicide, documentaries Ready to Explode and KTLA Impact, NBC news, PBS In Focus, WBZT talk radio and in O Magazine, Psychology Today, Newsday, The Nest, MSN.com, Yahoo, Match.com, N Magazine, Women’s Health and Women’s World. Please visit: http://www.askdrmolly.com
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